One of my teammates was able to get this 'working' with Gradle but it was a total hack. I'll dig up the notes, but I don't recall it being pleasant, and we never incorporated it. We just replaced Lombok with Kotlin right away.
I suspect it won't be possible to do in maven due to its rigidity.
I've also had issues occasionally in Intellij with both Lombok and Kotlin plugins active. Resolved by disabling the Lombok plugin.